https://thepaulagcompany.com/finding-the-gifts/ Helping you simplify and streamline your small business Tue, 19 Jun 2007 07:31:59 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.3 https://thepaulagcompany.com/finding-the-gifts/#comment-171 Tue, 19 Jun 2007 07:31:59 +0000 http://www.coaching4lesbians.com/blog/2007/06/12/finding-the-gifts/#comment-171 […] Regrets are great for beating ourselves up. We look back at something we wish we would’ve done or said and then spend the next 10, 20, 30, or more years beating ourselves up for it. I know from personal experience! The problem is we can’t change nor live in the past if we want to be present in our life and really live it. Letting go and forgiving is the process of giving up the hope that the past should have been or will ever be different than it was. The only thing to do with regrets is to let them go and use them as a means to inform our present. After all, there is always a gift in a regretful situation. How can you use that gift to make more powerful choices today and in the future? […]

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