Comments on: Who Are You When (You Think) Nobody is Looking?

By: Simon

Simon — Thu, 28 Dec 2006 12:25:57 +0000

Thanks for passing on Andrea's post and your great commentary… especially about the importance of tending to personal growth. So true and so often skipped because we don't make time for it.

By: Paula G

Paula G — Tue, 22 Aug 2006 17:11:11 +0000

Hi Jeff & c. Thanks for the comments!

One thing I shared with c in email is that whenever I hit a lonely patch or maybe a time when not too many other friends are nearby, I always seize it as an opportunity to learn more about myself. How can I forge a deeper relationship with myself & make "me" my best friend. It can sound a little corny, but I had a stretch a few years ago where a lot of people in my life vanished at once, time to move on. I took that time to do a lot of reading & getting to know "me" and it made a HUGE difference. So, now even when I'm alone, I can enjoy the solitude and not feel lonely (as often…).

By: Jeffrey M. Harty

Jeffrey M. Harty — Mon, 21 Aug 2006 23:28:12 +0000

As a business owner I understand the lonleyness that you feel. Somewhere down the line I lost who I am, now I am trying to take one day at a time to find myself and to gather my thoughts and ideas. As a newly seperated partner I find that there are alot of questions that need to be answered, either questions in my personal life or my business life. But there is one thing I am sure of there are people out there that will extend there hand not to mention offer you advice. The answer to the question,Who are your when nobody is looking? I am an honest, loving, gentle, caring, romantic indivdual that wants something better for ones self.

By: c

Mon, 21 Aug 2006 12:31:03 +0000

lately, when no one is looking,,,im not as happy as they would think i am. they all think i have so much freedom now that i am able to live openly as a lesbian. i am lonely a lot of the time.